Why People Hurt the Ones They Love: A Jungian Exploration of Love, Projection, and the Shadow

Author:   Mel Barker
Publisher:   Independently Published
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9798242377875


Pages:   120
Publication Date:   03 January 2026
Format:   Paperback
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Why People Hurt the Ones They Love: A Jungian Exploration of Love, Projection, and the Shadow


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Why do we hurt the people we love most? It happens in every relationship. A sharp word you didn't mean to say. A withdrawal you can't explain. A pattern you swore you'd never repeat, showing up again with a different person in a different year. You apologize. You mean it. And then it happens again. This is not about communication skills or conflict resolution. This is about what Carl Jung spent his life uncovering: the forces that take over our behavior when we're closest to someone. In this book, you'll discover: - Why love exposes the shadow instead of healing it - How projection turns the person you love into a target for wounds they didn't cause - Why childhood complexes hijack adult intimacy without warning - The psychological reason we're drawn to familiar pain over unfamiliar peace - How silence and withdrawal become forms of violence - Why shame prevents change more than guilt ever could This is not therapy. This is truth. Jung understood that most of the harm we cause happens beneath conscious awareness. We react from old wounds. We repeat patterns we don't recognize. We project onto others what we can't face in ourselves. And the people we love bear the weight of material we've been carrying for decades. Why People Hurt the Ones They Love takes you into the mechanics of unconscious harm. Not to excuse it. To see it clearly enough that change becomes possible. If you've ever wondered: - Why you keep choosing the same kind of person - Why your reactions feel bigger than the moment deserves - Why you sabotage relationships that could actually work - Why the person who loves you can also wound you so deeply This book will show you what's happening beneath the surface. And once you see it, it changes how you experience every relationship that follows. For readers of Attached, The Body Keeps the Score, and anyone drawn to the depth psychology of Carl Jung. Warning: This book does not offer comfort. It offers clarity. And clarity, while uncomfortable, is the only place real change begins.

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Author:   Mel Barker
Publisher:   Independently Published
Imprint:   Independently Published
Dimensions:   Width: 15.20cm , Height: 0.60cm , Length: 22.90cm
Weight:   0.172kg
ISBN:  

9798242377875


Pages:   120
Publication Date:   03 January 2026
Audience:   General/trade ,  General
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   Available To Order   Availability explained
We have confirmation that this item is in stock with the supplier. It will be ordered in for you and dispatched immediately.

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