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A bold firsthand account of the circumstances surrounding the notorious Bali ""Suitcase Murder"" and the human cost of overlooking child-to-parent violence and abuse On August 12, 2014, the body of 62-year-old Sheila von Wiese-Mack—the wealthy Oak Park, Illinois, widow of famed composer James L. Mack—was found stuffed inside a suitcase in the trunk of a taxi in Bali. Back in the Midwest, listening to the radio, Sgt. Rasul Freelain of the Oak Park Police Department pulled his car over to absorb the unthinkable news. Amid his shock, one coherent thought surfaced: ""Heather did this."" Freelain had met the Macks more than three years earlier, when Sheila first reached out to the police for help with her increasingly volatile daughter. Although Heather Mack was just a teenager, she had already displayed a disturbing pattern of escalating violence. Freelain did everything he could to intervene. But as the abuse worsened, he found himself sidelined by a justice system unprepared to deal with child-to-parent violence and abuse (CPVA). In this gripping and empathetic memoir, Freelain traces the Mack family's descent from privilege to tragedy, bringing overdue attention to CPVA as a critical yet overlooked public health crisis. He recounts the glamorous but troubled world of the Macks—the parties, the talent, the dysfunction—and his efforts to support both mother and daughter. With rare insight into the web of trauma, race, wealth, and grief that surrounded them, he shows how the system failed them both—and how, even after Sheila's death, he remained committed to seeking justice and change. When Lambs Become Wolves moves beyond sensational headlines to examine the roots of one of America's most hidden forms of domestic violence. While media coverage fixated on the exotic setting and shocking brutality of the crime, along with the growing notoriety of the teenage killer, Freelain urges readers—and institutions in law enforcement, child welfare, and mental health—to focus instead on those harmed. Sheila was more than a victim; she was a sharp, compassionate, creative woman who loved her daughter to the very end. Through meticulous research and raw personal reflection, Freelain explores how abuse cycles form, how institutions look away, and what it means to try—and fail—to protect someone in crisis. This memoir, with a foreword by Sheila's brother William Wiese, is a call to action, offering a rare blend of true crime, compassion, and advocacy. This deeply human account of a police officer caught in an impossible situation shows the price of ignoring the violence that starts at home.

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""In When Lambs Become Wolves, Sgt. Rasul T. Freelain shares his haunting firsthand account of Sheila von Wiese-Mack's desperate struggle to save her daughter from a path of violence and destruction. Through his unique perspective as both investigator and confidant, Freelain reveals the tragic collision of love, denial, and betrayal that ended in unthinkable violence.""--Esther Sanchez Ludlow, host and producer, Once Upon a Crime podcast ""A heartbreaking exploration of a complex family tragedy, exposing a system not yet reconciled to the possibility of needing to protect a parent from their own child.""--Helen Bonnick, author of Child to Parent Violence and Abuse: A Practitioner's Guide to Working with Families ""Freelain delivers the most revealing, honest, and human account to date of Sheila von Wiese-Mack's struggle to save herself and her teenage daughter. His book is a must-read for anyone who truly hopes to understand this terrible tragedy.""--Jon Seidel, reporter, Chicago Sun-Times ""A thought-provoking and insightful book on a very timely issue that deserves the focus and effort required to identify needed changes in both law enforcement training and in laws dealing with victims of abuse. Issues affecting children may have come full circle that are being reflected in teen violence on our streets and in our schools today.""--Gary Schenkel, chairman, Illinois Terrorism Task Force ""Freelain draws on his professional experience as a sergeant, detective, school resource officer, and teacher and takes us into the world of child-to-parent violence and abuse (CPVA), a troubling aspect of family violence for which, until recently, we had no language. While it may reflect a harsh societal reality, he does us a service by leading us toward facing the problem and starting discussions on how to fix it.""--John F. S. Williams, Crisis Intervention Team (C.I.T.) Coordinator for Northern Illinois ""A profoundly jarring effort to make both clinical and personal sense of a tragedy that has left a trail of horror across multiple generations and beyond global boundaries; the story of Sheila von Wiese-Mack lingers, haunts, and unsettles anew as the author seeks to shed some light on this most grim chapter of loss told from the middle-American heartland.""--Bayo Ojikutu, author of 47th Street Black and Free Burning

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Sgt. Rasul T. Freelain (Ret.) served twenty years with the Oak Park Police Department in Illinois. He is certified by CIT (Crisis Intervention Team) International as a coordinator and teaches for the Illinois CIT Training Unit. Currently he is working to bring increased awareness to the problem of child-to-parent violence and abuse (CPVA).

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