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A fun, science-backed dating guide that interrupts the patterns keeping love just out of reach—and empowers readers with the tools to build lasting connection Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, relationship expert Amy Chan has helped countless people transform their love lives through her world-renowned Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamps. What she’s discovered is surprising: Most singles aren’t failing at love because they need years of therapy or a complete personality overhaul. They’re stuck in a recurring pattern—and once that pattern is identified and interrupted, everything changes. In this groundbreaking guide, Chan introduces the Dating Funnel framework, a step-by-step system that pinpoints exactly where people are getting stuck and why. Whether it’s struggling to meet quality matches, stalling after the first few dates, or getting caught in situationship purgatory, Unsingle offers a practical roadmap to update dating skills and heal the deeper wounds that block connection. Chan’s approach is refreshingly honest and often hilarious: Sometimes the common denominator in all those dating disasters isn’t bad luck—it’s a pattern. She’s here to lovingly call it out and teach exactly how to shift it. Backed by cutting-edge research, real client transformations, and her signature blend of tough love and genuine warmth, Unsingle proves that creating lasting love isn’t about luck—it’s about skill.

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Unsingle is a guide to the kind of self-healing that makes healthy love possible. If you're ready to stop settling and start attracting, this book is for you. * JILLIAN TURECKI, New York Times bestselling author of It Begins with You and host of the Jillian on * This isn't your typical dating advice—it's a psychology-based road map to becoming the kind of person capable of thriving relationships. * DR. SCOTT BARRY KAUFMAN, author of Rise Above and Transcend * Unsingle is the love manual every smart single needs. If you're done wasting time on dead-end situationships and want to find real love, this is your wake-up call. * PATTI STANGER, the Millionaire Matchmaker and founder of Millionaire's Club International * Amy Chan gets it. She cuts through all the dating nonsense and gives you the real talk about love. If you want to stop dating like you're stuck in Groundhog Day, read this book * JOHN KIM, LMFT, ""The Angry Therapist"" and author of I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck * Amy Chan has written a clear-eyed guide to breaking free from the unconscious patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of romantic chaos. This book is for anyone ready to stop repeating their past and start building the love they truly deserve. * DR. SCOTT LYONS, founder of the Embody Lab and author of Addicted to Drama * Amy Chan exposes the psychological forces that make us unwittingly sabotage our chances of finding love and that trap us in destructive relationship patterns once we do—and most importantly, she shows us how to escape them. Unsingle is chock full of insights, assessments, and practical tools you can use to understand the obstacles that have stood in your way so that you can sidestep them and create the lasting relationship you deserve. * GUY WINCH, Ph.D., psychologist and author of Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart * Amy Chan has a gift for making complicated relationship patterns easy to understand. Unsingle shows you why we keep repeating the same mistakes and how to finally break the cycle. With relatable stories and research-backed insights, it's a practical and encouraging guide that helps you make better choices and feel more hopeful about love. * TY TASHIRO, PhD, psychologist and author of The Science of Happily Ever After *

Unsingle is a guide to the kind of self-healing that makes healthy love possible. If you're ready to stop settling and start attracting, this book is for you. * JILLIAN TURECKI, New York Times bestselling author of It Begins with You and host of the Jillian on * This isn't your typical dating advice—it's a psychology-based road map to becoming the kind of person capable of thriving relationships. * DR. SCOTT BARRY KAUFMAN, author of Rise Above and Transcend * Unsingle is the love manual every smart single needs. If you're done wasting time on dead-end situationships and want to find real love, this is your wake-up call. * PATTI STANGER, the Millionaire Matchmaker and founder of Millionaire's Club International * Amy Chan gets it. She cuts through all the dating nonsense and gives you the real talk about love. If you want to stop dating like you're stuck in Groundhog Day, read this book * JOHN KIM, LMFT, ""The Angry Therapist"" and author of I Used to Be a Miserable F*ck * Amy Chan has written a clear-eyed guide to breaking free from the unconscious patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of romantic chaos. This book is for anyone ready to stop repeating their past and start building the love they truly deserve. * DR. SCOTT LYONS, founder of the Embody Lab and author of Addicted to Drama * Amy Chan exposes the psychological forces that make us unwittingly sabotage our chances of finding love and that trap us in destructive relationship patterns once we do—and most importantly, she shows us how to escape them. Unsingle is chock full of insights, assessments, and practical tools you can use to understand the obstacles that have stood in your way so that you can sidestep them and create the lasting relationship you deserve. * GUY WINCH, Ph.D., psychologist and author of Emotional First Aid and How to Fix a Broken Heart * Amy Chan has a gift for making complicated relationship patterns easy to understand. Unsingle shows you why we keep repeating the same mistakes and how to finally break the cycle. With relatable stories and research-backed insights, it's a practical and encouraging guide that helps you make better choices and feel more hopeful about love. * TY TASHIRO, PhD, psychologist and author of The Science of Happily Ever After * Unsingle is the book I wish more people had in their hands before giving up on dating—or on themselves. Amy Chan offers us clear, compassionate guidance and a fresh approach to dating relationships that feels both deeply practical and deeply human. This book is a roadmap to navigating the dating world with awareness, curiosity, and self-compassion. * JESS JANZ, author of The Table Where We Meet *

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Amy Chan is a leading expert in social and relational skills and the author of the bestselling Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart. She founded Renew Breakup Bootcamp, the world's first science-based heartbreak retreat, and has been dubbed ""a scientific Carrie Bradshaw"" by The Observer. Amy has taught at Google, YouTube, has guest lectured at Columbia University, and is faculty at Esalen and The Omega Institute. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The New Yorker, The Guardian, USA Today, andon Good Morning America, The Today Show, and more. Unsingle is Amy's latest book, publishing in April 2026.

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