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The Wrong Person Effect: Why Attraction and Familiar Pain Keep Us Stuck is a psychologically sharp book about relationship patterns that repeat no matter how much we ""work on ourselves."" Many people don't struggle with love because they choose badly - they struggle because emotional attraction is shaped by familiarity, not logic. What feels like chemistry is often the nervous system responding to known emotional pain. This is why toxic relationships can feel magnetic, while stable connections feel confusing or dull. Drawing on modern psychology, attachment theory, and emotional memory, The Wrong Person Effect explores why trauma bonding feels like passion, why awareness alone doesn't break the cycle, and why insight doesn't automatically change desire. Even when you understand your patterns, your body may still reach for what feels familiar. This book explains how attachment styles quietly guide romantic choices, why we repeat the same dynamics with different partners, and why breaking free requires more than ""choosing better."" It looks at relationship anxiety, emotional activation, and the difference between intensity and real intimacy - without offering formulas, checklists, or motivational clichés. The Wrong Person Effect is not a dating guide. It's not a promise of quick healing. It's a clear, grounded exploration of why we choose the wrong partner, and what actually changes when attraction stops being organized around pain. For readers interested in relationship psychology, emotional patterns, and self-awareness, this book offers clarity without blame - and language for experiences many people feel but can't explain.

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