Overview

Hip-hop legend “Da Brat” DuPart and her wife Judy DuPart, stars of WEtv’s highly rated reality series Brat Loves Judy, share their journey to the altar and parenthood in this candid relationship guide and marriage memoir. Hip-hop legend Da Brat and beauty entrepreneur Jesseca “Judy” Harris-Dupart’s love story is as heartwarming as it is improbable. As rumors about her sexuality abounded, “Brat” believed she would remain “in the closet” until she took her last breath. But lightning struck when the rapper and the businesswoman met in 2017. Though their chemistry was instant and undeniable, the two went their separate ways. Reconnecting at the Essence Festival a few years later, Da Brat made the bold decision to publicly come out and confirmed their relationship in March 2020. Their love blossoming into their own successful reality show Brat Loves Judy, and two years later their marriage. Within a few months of sharing vows, the couple announced that Da Brat was pregnant, and on July 6, 2023, the pair welcomed a baby boy named True Legend Harris-Dupart. Part memoir and part relationship guide, The Way Love Goes, is laugh-out-loud funny and filled with warmth and love—just like its authors. Told in Da Brat’s signature Chicago tone, and Judy’s distinctive New Orleans patois, they each take turns detailing common relationship challenges, from sharing successful and meaningful communication to creating balance to coping with jealousy—and how they conquered them.

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""[An] impressive and reflective treat for diehard fans of Da Brat and Judy. The authors don’t mince words as they escort readers through their shared lives and how their shared “golden rules” developed as guideposts. The book stresses the importance of establishing boundaries, responsibility, accountability, faith, honesty and communication, which, they admit, was initially difficult as both women had different styles of personal expression (and text response times). Filled with takeaways and wise, self-reflective pearls, the book’s strength is in its balance in allowing both women to be frank and transparent in sharing their perspective on how the relationship emerged, grew, and continues to evolve, including the birth of a son in 2023….It’s advice that continues to be imperative to the success of the authors’ relationship with each other."" — Kirkus Reviews ""It’s dope watching my little sister Brat's life journey. I’m so proud of her. She and Judy are so supportive of each other, and they keep life fresh and exciting."" — Jermaine Dupri ""I am so excited for this book to be in the world. The love that Judy and Brat express to the world is truly aspirational and beautiful. I have always admired Da Brat and all of her accomplishments…but knowing her journey inside and outside the closet has always made me feel for her. Seeing her shine with another light (Judy) brings me joy. This book will educate and share wonderful tips for whatever kind of relationship you are in. Love y’all!"" — Raven-Symoné ""The journey of Brat and Judy has been nothing but inspirational. I remember going to work every single morning with my good friend Brat and she’s always had a light and a joy about her, but I remember one day when something changed, something felt a bit happier and more joyous in her smile. That something was the best addition to her life. The way she loves Judy and the way that Judy loves her was so palpable. I could not help but to smile as a friend. Their love story gives me hope and is an inspiration to living authentically in letting love lead the way. I will forever be rooting for the union and The Beauty of Brat and Judy."" — Eva Marcille ""The way Da Brat writes about Judy makes the words jump off the page and into your heart. I never wanted to put this book down."" — Porsha Williams, actress and The Real Housewives of Atlanta and The Traitors star ""Anybody who knows me knows I love, love. And these two never miss. They are constantly sharing their love for one another and this book is no different. Giving insight on how to grow together and love each other while dealing with the random but real scenarios life throws your way. This is a page turner you don’t want to miss."" — Kyla Pratt of The Proud Family series and Dr. Doolittle film

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Shawntae Harris, born in Chicago, Illinois better known by her stage name ""Da Brat,"" is an American rap artist, profound writer, television and radio personality, actress, and executive music and television producer. Harris attended Kenwood Academy and The Academy Of Scholastic Achievement where she played seven different instruments in band. Da Brat's debut album Funkdafied was released in 1994 and entered the rap albums chart at #1. The album went platinum, making her the ""first"" female solo rapper to sell one million units. The eponymous single reached #1 on the rap singles chart and #6 on the Billboard Hot 100, with her follow-up hit, ""Give It 2 You,"" reaching #26 on the Hot 100 and #6 on the Billboard Hot 100. Da Brat has released four studio albums to date: Funkdafied, Anuthatantrum, Unrestricted, and Limelite, Luv & Nightclubs. Her best-known features are with Jermaine Dupri, Kris Kross, Mariah Carey, Missy Elliott, Jay Z, Aaliyah and the Notorious BIG. The smash hit ""Not Tonight"", with Lil 'Kim, Left Eye, Missy Elliott and Angie Martinez was Grammy nominated and an instant urban and pop radio chart topper. She has performed and written with many artists including Tyrese, Total, Xscape, Usher, Jagged Edge, Dru Hill, Destiny Child, Kelly Price, Brandy, Bow Wow, and Snoop Dogg. In 2015, she made her radio debut and joined the nationally syndicated Rickey Smiley Morning Show as the new co-host, and in 2016 became a permanent fixture on Dish Nation. She has also appeared on The Parenthood, Sabrina the Teenage Witch, All That, Rickey Smiley for Real, Empire, The Rap Game and recapped every episode titled ""Da Brat Game."" She also executively produced WeTV's Growing Up Hip Hop Atlanta. In 2018, Da Brat made a successful live theatre debut as Cleo from the hit 1996 movie Set It Off. In 2021, she made television history with her partner Jesseca Harris-Dupart as an executive producer and cast member on WeTV's Brat Loves Judy, which aired for three seasons, along with Brat Loves Judy: The Baby Special-making them the first LGBTQ+ female power couple featured on reality television. Da Brat also appeared on Nick Cannon Presents: Wild 'N Out, The Wendy Williams Show, The Chi, and Queens. Da Brat continues to flourish her acting and music career, by writing and producing as well as developing new talent. Along with making special appearances, performances and speaking engagements, she also lends her time to charitable organizations such as Kaleidoscope Kares, Kamileon's Kloset, Hosea Feed The Hungry and Saving Our Daughters.

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