The Selfless Trap: Why We Chase Others' Wins and Dodge Our own: A Guide to Reclaiming Your Value

Author:   Patrick Oga Chidarara
Publisher:   Independently Published
ISBN:  

9798250935524


Pages:   86
Publication Date:   06 March 2026
Format:   Paperback
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The Selfless Trap: Why We Chase Others' Wins and Dodge Our own: A Guide to Reclaiming Your Value


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Are you always the one saying ""yes"" when you want to scream ""no""? Do you pour hours into helping friends, family, bosses, or even strangers-while your own goals, health, and dreams sit on the back burner? You're not selfish for noticing. You're just caught in the selfless trap-a pattern millions of young adults (16-30) fall into every day, chasing external approval while quietly sacrificing themselves. In The Selfless Trap, you'll discover why this happens: the hidden psychology of people-pleasing, fear of seeming ""greedy,"" social media pressures, hustle culture, and attachment styles that make putting yourself first feel impossible. Through raw, relatable real-life stories-from college students carrying group projects to 20-somethings mentoring everyone but themselves-you'll see your own patterns reflected and understand the real costs: stalled careers, burnout, resentment, health crashes, and that nagging ""what if I had chosen me?"" regret. But this isn't just diagnosis-it's your escape plan. You'll learn: How to rewire your mindset from ""others-first"" to balanced self-value without guilt Practical tools: time-blocking, boundary scripts, ""no"" practice, accountability systems Ways to sustain change long-term in a world full of distractions, notifications, and demands Written specifically for Gen Z and millennials navigating economic uncertainty, FOMO, and identity pressures, this book empowers you to: Set boundaries that strengthen relationships Invest in your health, skills, and passions first Give authentically from overflow, not depletion If you're tired of feeling drained, overlooked, and stuck helping everyone else win-while your own life stays on pause-this book is your wake-up call and roadmap. Start reclaiming your time, energy, and future today. Your future self is waiting-and deserves better.

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Author:   Patrick Oga Chidarara
Publisher:   Independently Published
Imprint:   Independently Published
Dimensions:   Width: 12.70cm , Height: 0.50cm , Length: 20.30cm
Weight:   0.095kg
ISBN:  

9798250935524


Pages:   86
Publication Date:   06 March 2026
Audience:   Children/juvenile ,  Children / Juvenile
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   Available To Order   Availability explained
We have confirmation that this item is in stock with the supplier. It will be ordered in for you and dispatched immediately.

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