Overview

Some semi-public, exclusive male settings, most noticeably in the military, encourage the production of intimacy and desire. Yet whereas in most instances this desire is displaced through humor and aggressive gestures, it becomes acknowledged and outright declared once associated with sites of heroic death. In his provocative study of interrelations between friendship in everyday life and national sentiments in Israel, the author follows selected stories of friendship ranging over early childhood, school, the workplace, and some unique war experiences. He explores the symbolism of friendship in rituals for the fallen soldiers, the commemoration of Prime Minister Yzhak Rabin, and the national infatuation with recovering bodies of missing soldiers. He concludes that the Israeli case offers an extreme instance of a much broader cultural phenomenon: declaring the friendship for the dead epitomizes the political “blood pact” between men, taking precedence over the traditional blood ties of kinship and heterosexual unions. The book underscores nationalism as a homosocial-based emotion of commemorative desire.

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Author:   Danny Kaplan
Publisher:   Berghahn Books
Imprint:   Berghahn Books
Weight:   0.381kg
ISBN:  

9781845451929

ISBN 10:   1845451929
Pages:   190
Publication Date:   01 November 2006
Audience:   College/higher education ,  Professional and scholarly ,  Undergraduate ,  Postgraduate, Research & Scholarly
Format:   Hardback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   In Print  
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Table of Contents

Acknowledgments Prologue Part I: Friendship and Ideology Chapter 1. The Case of Fraternal Friendship Chapter 2. Re'ut: Friendship in Zionist Ideology Part II: Friendship in Everyday Life Chapter 3. History and Destiny: Friendship Narratives Chapter 4. Two Styles of Sharing: The Hevreman and the Intellectual Chapter 5. Public Intimacy and the Miscommunication of Desire Part III: Sacred Friendship Chapter 6. David, Jonathan, and Other Soldiers: The Hegemonic Script for Male Bonding Chapter 7. Shalom, haver : Commemoration as Desire Discussion: Nationalism, Friendship, and Commemorative Desire Appendix I: Studying a National Emotion Appendix II: Table of Interviewees Bibliography

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This is an excellent book. The argument is based on clear theoretical options and the research is conveyed to the reader through a very good use of ethnographic material. Furthermore, this work simultaneously addresses issues of nationalism and gender/masculinity, allowing for a richer understanding of each. Finally, friendship is recovered as a dignified object of study in the social sciences. Miguel Vale de Almeida

Author Information

Danny Kaplan is a research fellow at the Horowitz Institute on Society and Economy at Tel Aviv University and teaches at Bar Ilan University and Tel Aviv-Yafo Academic College. He specializes in the anthropology of friendship, military masculinity, sexuality, and the sociology of emotions. He is the author of Brothers and Others in Arms: The Making of Love and War in Israeli Combat Units (Haworth Press 2003).

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