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EVERYTHING YOU KNOW ABOUT LOVE WAS LEARNED BEFORE YOU COULD QUESTION IT. You already know the pattern. Different person, same ending. Different face, same hurt. You have stayed too long, given too much, loved people who could not love you back in the ways that mattered. And somewhere underneath the exhaustion of it, a question you have never been able to fully answer: why do I keep ending up here? The answer begins earlier than you think. Love was defined in the atmosphere of the home you grew up in. In what was given freely and what had to be earned. In what happened when you expressed your needs, or felt too deeply, or took up too much space. Your nervous system learned the rules of love in that environment and has been following them ever since; reaching for what feels familiar, staying in what feels like home, even when home was never safe. This book is the explanation you have been looking for. Written by a psychologist who spent years understanding the science of why people love the way they do-and then had to spend years more actually living differently-The Love You Were Wired For moves through every stage of the journey. The recognition of patterns you didn't know you were living inside. The science beneath the behaviour. The breaking point. The grief. The slow, unglamorous work of reclaiming yourself. And finally, the becoming. You are not broken. You are not unlucky in love. You are wired by your earliest experiences to reach for what feels familiar. And familiar, when you grew up inside conditional or inconsistent love, does not always mean safe. This book is about understanding that wiring, grieving what it cost you, and doing the work of changing it. Perfect for readers who: Keep ending up in the same relationship with a different person and cannot understand why Are self-aware and still cannot seem to stop the pattern Have been through heartbreak that felt unsurvivable and are trying to make sense of it Struggle with staying too long, giving too much, or loving people who cannot love them back fully Want intellectually grounded, honest self-help that does not offer easy answers or prescriptive steps Are ready to do the real work of understanding where their patterns come from and what it actually takes to change them The Love You Were Wired For is for anyone who has ever stayed too long, loved too hard, given too much-and is finally ready to love differently.

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