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Are you exhausted from fighting the same battle every single week? Do you or your partner shut down, yell, or retreat during conflicts, leaving you feeling misunderstood and profoundly alone? The pain you feel is real, but the problem isn't your love. The odds are, your marital problems are amplified by how you perceive and react to the conflict. Most marriages struggle because couples use strategies designed for simple fixes on the deep, recurring issues of personality and history. Drawing on decades of clinical experience and the proven science of the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, The Dance of Disagreement offers a radical promise: Conflict is not the end of your marriage; it is the engine for your deepest connection. In this essential book, you will learn to: ✅ Stop Fighting the Same Fight (The 69% Rule): Learn how to instantly distinguish between solvable problems and the 69% of perpetual problems that result from core personality and value differences. ✅ Master Conflict Engagement Styles: Understand how our wiring influences our response to conflict and why you and your partner respond to conflicts the way you do. ✅ Break the Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle: Understand the attachment-based reasons why you or your partner become anxious (pursuer) or shut down (withdrawer). Get the script to shift your conflicts from stalemate and frustration to breakthrough and intimacy. ✅ Breakfree from the Fight/Flight Trap: Learn physiological techniques for self-soothing during emotional flooding, ensuring disagreements with your partner brings you closer rather than pulling you apart. ✅ Build an Unbreakable Foundation: Learn the non-negotiable daily habits (Love Maps, Bids for Connection) that build a powerful emotional bank account, making it impossible for small conflicts to destroy your trust. Your marriage deserves a strategy that actually works. Don't settle for firefighting. Get the proactive skills needed to transform your disagreements from sources of pain into opportunities for secure, lifelong intimacy.

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