Not the Perfect Victim: A Memoir of Surviving Sexual Violence, a Late Autism Diagnosis, and the Fight for Justice

Author:   Anna Kahill
Publisher:   The Space Between Press
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9781068290312


Pages:   230
Publication Date:   09 September 2025
Format:   Paperback
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Not the Perfect Victim: A Memoir of Surviving Sexual Violence, a Late Autism Diagnosis, and the Fight for Justice


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He stole my voice. This is what it took to get it back. A fierce, honest memoir of trauma, autism, and finding the strength to speak. At nineteen, one night changed everything for Anna Kahill. A violent trauma shattered her sense of safety and left her carrying the truth alone for more than a decade. Grief, motherhood, and a late diagnosis of autism and PTSD finally forced the memories she had buried to the surface. Not the Perfect Victim is Anna's unflinching account of survival and the fight for justice inside a system that legal professionals, advocacy groups, and survivors often describe as notoriously difficult to navigate in sexual violence cases. With clarity and courage, she exposes the impossible expectations placed on traumatised and neurodivergent women - and the silence demanded of anyone who doesn't fit the ""perfect victim"" mould. Raw, compassionate, and deeply human, this memoir speaks to anyone who has questioned their memory, their worth, or their right to be heard. For readers of: Know My Name - Chanel Miller What My Bones Know - Stephanie Foo The Body Keeps the Score - Bessel van der Kolk Anna Kahill's story has been featured in The Belfast Telegraph, Books Ireland, Women Writers, Writing.ie, Armagh I, and The Newry Democrat. A memoir that refuses silence - and shows what it really takes to reclaim your life.

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Author:   Anna Kahill
Publisher:   The Space Between Press
Imprint:   The Space Between Press
ISBN:  

9781068290312


ISBN 10:   1068290315
Pages:   230
Publication Date:   09 September 2025
Audience:   General/trade ,  General
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   Available To Order   Availability explained
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What Readers Are Saying on Goodreads ★★★★★ ""... it captivated me from the first page. The author is searingly honest. [...] A most thought provoking read"" - Goodreads Reviewer ★★★★★ ""I found my chest tightening reading this book. Its a raw, tough and very honest read..."" - Goodreads Reviewer ★★★★★ ""I don't think I've read anything that deals with the lasting impact of rape which is as deeply moving as this. [...] This is not a misery memoir-it's a story about survival and a refusal to let what happened to her as a nineteen-year-old university student ruin the rest of her precious life. A gripping read that will make you want to see justice for the countless silent victims of this horrendous crime."" - Goodreads reviewer


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