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Growing up as a Black girl often means learning the world's expectations far too early, about your body, your strength, and your silence. Growing up in a predominantly white neighbourhood while being a Black girl in a Black household and community means learning early how different spaces react to your mere presence, and how these perceptions are often paired with being misunderstood and subjected to misogynoir. In this deeply honest coming-of-age memoir, Kiki, Nakiwu? explores one Black girl's life as she navigates bullying, emotional abuse and fractured friendships, dating and relationships with men, the development of self-love, and the lasting effects of social comparison and stereotypes on identity and self-worth. Using personal, real-life examples, the author explores the psychology behind bullying, why it happens, how it shapes identity, and the ways it can follow us beyond the classroom, while reflecting on how she learned to survive, understand, and ultimately confront its impact. As a young Black girl whose developing body drew unwanted attention, the author reflects on the painful reality of being oversexualized at an early age and how that shaped her perspective and relationship with safety, self-image, and male attention, particularly in environments where Blackness was already hyper-visible and seen through a reductionist lens. These experiences are woven together with reflections on loneliness, comparison, and belonging. Written for Black teenagers and young women, this book is not only about growing up, it is about what comes after. The author reflects on life post-COVID, questioning how isolation, screens, and distance have changed the way we relate to one another, and gently calls for a return to deeper human connection, community, and care in a world that feels increasingly disconnected. This is not a self-help manual or a set of rules. It is a reflective, validating narrative meant to equip young Black readers with understanding, language, and reassurance as they navigate identity, relationships, and healing in a complex world. Perfect for readers who are: Black teenage girls and young women Growing up or having grown up in predominantly white spaces Affected by bullying, emotional harm, or social exclusion Navigating body image, dating, and self-worth Questioning the impact of social media and post-COVID isolation Seeking connection, perspective, and truth through lived experience This book is a love letter to Black girls everywhere.

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