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How do you survive when the person meant to nurture you becomes your greatest source of pain? From the outside, Cindy's childhood in affluent Pleasanton was privileged, but behind the closed doors of her family home, she was trapped in a perpetual state of ""survival mode."" This raw and candid memoir pulls back the curtain on a deeply dysfunctional mother-daughter relationship, chronicling the emotional and, at times, physical abuse inflicted by the author's mother, Olga-an undiagnosed narcissist with a carefully constructed, Jackie O-inspired persona. In a series of unflinching, nonlinear vignettes, Cindy Bethune Ramos reveals the toxic patterns of her upbringing: from her mother's cruel criticism of her weight and style, to using her daughter as ""bragging content"" for transactional friendships, and the manipulation of truth that left Cindy constantly feeling ""never good enough."" The book's heart-wrenching turning point arrives when Cindy learns her mother secretly had her beloved father, Kirk, exhumed and cremated 45 years after his death, removing his headstone and his last resting place from her life without her knowledge or consent. This final act of control and betrayal forces Cindy to confront the complex, pseudo-bond she spent a lifetime trying to maintain. In My Mother's Shadow is a powerful story for anyone who has struggled with a narcissistic parent, offering a journey toward understanding, self-acceptance, and the profound realization that survival means cutting ties and finally writing your own ending. It is a testament to the resilience required to thrive after a childhood spent dodging a mother's constant ""grenades."" This is not a story of tidy reconciliation. It is one of truth-telling, survival--and ultimately release.

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