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In Great Connections: Loving with Limits by Larry D. Ellis, the reader will learn how to develop relationships that balance our connection with others while living independent lives not controlled by others. The author presents fascinating case studies and analyzes a number of biblical characters who demonstrate either healthy or dysfunctional behaviors. You will discover many Bible characters who established clear personal boundaries and lived by them. From a decidedly Christian worldview, the author looks to meaningful tools of psychology and important teachings from the Scriptures that explain how to make wise choices and enjoy connected relationships. By describing the relational landscape in terms of moving from emotional adolescence to emotional adulthood, the author paints a picture of healthy differentiation that is tangible and practicable - and that points the way to human flourishing in our relationships. While we all desire loving and healthy family relationships, we must also acknowledge that these fragile bonds can be marred with control and boundary issues. Great Connections: Loving with Limits is a must-read, not only for those who struggle with these dysfunctional connections, but also those with friends and loved ones who are affected by the consequences. Accessible, with interesting case studies and presented with a Christian worldview, Great Connections will leave the reader with a better understanding of how one can take personal responsibility to improve their own lives, as well as their individual family ties.

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While we all desire loving and healthy family relationships, we must also acknowledge that these fragile bonds can be marred with control and boundary issues. 'Great Connections: Loving with Limits' is a must-read, not only for those who struggle with these dysfunctional connections, but also those with friends and loved ones who are affected by the consequences. Accessible, with interesting case studies and presented with a Christian worldview, 'Great Connections' will leave the reader with a better understanding of how one can take personal responsibility to improve their own lives, as well as their individual family ties. ---Laurie Cockerell, former teacher, adoption caseworker, and the author of a number of children's book By describing the relational landscape in terms of moving from emotional adolescence to emotional adulthood, Larry Ellis helpful paints a picture of healthy differentiation that is tangible and practicable - and that points the way to human flourishing in our relationships. As a pastor, I value Ellis' insights into pursuing individuation and the importance of establishing healthy boundaries. Concurrently, I have been made more aware to when enmeshment or disconnection threatens healthy functioning - in my own relating and helping others in theirs. In sharing these insights with others, Ellis has challenged (and encouraged!) us all to pursue a God-honoring and life-giving relational future. ---Fr. Chris Ditzenberger, Rector of St. Gabriel the Archangel Episcopal Church, Cherry Hills Villiage, CO The fall of humanity led not only to the breakdown of relationship between humans and God but also to the breakdown in our relationships with each other. Dr. Ellis shows us how to understand, repair and reestablish those relationships. His book, Great Connections-Loving with Limits, leads us on a journey to achieve healthy relationships with fascinating examples of psychological behaviors from the Bible. Dr. Ellis further provides us with diverse philosophies of counseling options for those seeking further insight into relationships. ---Richard B. Cole, Attorney at Law This is a significant book on an important subject often overlooked by American Christianity. Larry Ellis does an excellent job of uncovering and highlighting valuable research in interpersonal relationships to the benefit of Christians in all walks of life. The foundation of ministry is relationships, and this book is an excellent resource for Christian leaders and lay people looking to grow in their relationships with others and with God. ---Pastor Chris Hirschy, Pastor, Salem Magley Church, Decatur, IN

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