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OverviewEgo manifests in many forms and can compromise our ability to fully engage with others. In order to build trusting relationships, today’s leaders need to understand how to manage their own egos, as well as others’. Equipped with these skills, leaders can encourage people to feel engaged and empowered while unlocking innovation and creating positive working environments. This book is packed with insightful leadership stories, useful psychological models and reflective activities and exercises to enable leaders to better understand themselves and the different dynamics at play in their relationships, allowing them to effectively manage the many challenges faced in today’s workplace. This book will help you: Understand your ego and how it does and doesn’t serve you Navigate tricky relationship dynamics and create greater levels of engagement Develop strategies for transcending unhelpful ego reactions and behaviour Enable greater levels of psychological safety in your workplace Be a leader who creates a culture that empowers others to perform at their best Full Product DetailsAuthor: Mary GregoryPublisher: Rethink Press Imprint: Rethink Press Dimensions: Width: 14.00cm , Height: 1.80cm , Length: 21.60cm Weight: 0.680kg ISBN: 9781781334355ISBN 10: 1781334358 Pages: 232 Publication Date: 30 May 2020 Audience: General/trade , Professional and scholarly , General , Professional & Vocational Format: Paperback Publisher's Status: Active Availability: In Print ![]() This item will be ordered in for you from one of our suppliers. Upon receipt, we will promptly dispatch it out to you. For in store availability, please contact us. Table of ContentsIntroduction 1 What Is Ego? What’s behind our emotional reactions? What do I mean by ego? How ego does and doesn’t serve us Learning to manage ego takes time Summary 2 The Leader’s Dilemma Focus on task over behaviour The organisational terrain today Leadership is primarily about relationships The need for greater flexibility Summary 3 Leading Others Means Leading Yourself First Leadership influence Look inside yourself Summary 4 Taking Ourselves On Stop running on automatic pilot Becoming more conscious is a choice Revel in stepping out of your comfort zone Recognising our internal imposter Engage with failure as an opportunity to learn Summary 5 Frameworks For Understanding Ourselves Who’s OK? The roles our ego can take How to navigate the different egos How our ego states can contaminate our thinking Summary 6 Dynamics Of Our Relationships With Others Interpersonal transactions Psychological games How to spot a game Addressing games Summary 7 Developing Our Adult Ego Why is an adult approach effective? Build a strong personal foundation Self-awareness and self-belief Summary 8 Building Integrity Redefining integrity Why integrity is important when navigating egos How to restore integrity Summary 9 Conscious Conversations That Matter Contracting conversations The different levels a contracting conversation addresses The three Cs of contracting Summary 10 How A Coaching Approach Can Help Growing with your role Using coaching to enable others What coaching is and isn’t One helpful mindset and two valuable skills A strategic approach to self Summary 11 Navigating Ego To Enable Culture Change How ego affects an organisation’s culture Trickiness of shifting culture The games that go on Making culture change happen Ongoing development over a period of time Summary Conclusion References Acknowledgements The AuthorReviews'A compelling read for any leader with responsibility for a team, ego can so easily get in the way of authentic leadership. Mary peels back the subject of our ego and how it's formed in a beautifully descriptive way and provides a deep insight for the reader to examine their own challenges with ego, acknowledge it and ditch it!' Craig McMurrough, Associate Partner, People and Culture Lead, Consulting and Innovation, Capita 'This book takes us on a journey of discovery - about ourselves, our strengths and of course our weaknesses. Never judgemental, it holds a mirror up and teaches us the skills to enable us to identify these for ourselves. Using a reality check example in each chapter, we see how real life encounters are matched to the theory, enabling us to gain an understanding of what kind of leaders we truly are. The exercises allow us to signpost potential blindspots and reflect on how these can be managed.' Niall O'Connor, Group Managing Director, Aldi 'A wonderfully useful whistle-stop tour to help you get out of the way of your ability to lead. Options you can play with to ensure you distinguish between your ego and your vision. Highly recommended to anyone getting frustrated with others in trying to achieve their goals.' Elva Ainsworth, Founder and CEO, Talent Innovations 'A refreshingly accessible read, full of insights and exercises that both re-frames the concept of ego, and re-tools us accordingly.' Penny De Valk, Leadership Coach and Mentor 'If you want to lead high-performing teams, you need to notice yourself and the impact that you have on others. On that journey, this book is a must read. Mary blends theory, real-world examples and practical points of reflection to raise awareness of ego: yours and that of the people that you lead. It will help you to understand your ego and how you react. To be more aware of others' egos, and how to adapt your approach to their needs. Working with Mary helped me to understand myself better, and to build authentic relationships with colleagues. Mary has captured the essence of that coaching in this excellent book.' Ed Garcez, Chief Digital and Information Officer (London Borough of Camden) A brilliantly crafted piece enabling today's leaders not only to understand the role their ego plays in being highly eff ective, but also how, if misunderstood, it can have the opposite eff ect. Niall O'Connor, Group Managing Director, Aldi Author InformationMary Gregory is a sought-after international leadership consultant. She has led change for large organisations including First Choice Holidays, O2, Ralph Lauren and Tesco. A trusted coach to senior executives, she also designs and delivers large-scale leadership programmes. Mary has learned, both from her own experiences and those of her clients, how our egos impact the results we achieve. She is committed to empowering leaders in creating high performing workplaces where people thrive. Tab Content 6Author Website:Countries AvailableAll regions |