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A wondrously unusual memoir about a woman who, in the midst of mourning her divorce, retreats into her shell and renegotiates her relationship to solitude, shame, and connection-from an acclaimed 5 Under 35 National Book Foundation honoree. In this wondrously unusual memoir, a woman retreats into her shell in the aftermath of her divorce, and must choose between the pleasures and the perils of a closed-up life-a transformation fable from an acclaimed 5 Under 35 National Book Foundation honoree. ""A marvel and a delight . . . This is a book that will stay with me forever.""-Leslie Jamison, author of Splinters We've all heard the story about waking up as a cockroach-but what if a crisis turned you into a clam? After the dissolution of her marriage, a writer is transformed into a ""clam"" via typo after her mother keeps texting her to ""clam down."" The funny if unhelpful command forces her to ask what it means to ""clam down""-to retreat, hide, close up, and stay silent. Idiomatically, we are said to ""clam up"" when we can't speak, and to ""come out of our shell"" when we reemerge, transformed. In order to understand her path, the clam digs into examples of others who have embraced lives of reclusiveness and extremity. Finally, she confronts her own ""clam genealogy"" to interview her dad, who disappeared for a decade to write a mysterious accounting software called Shell Computing. By excavating his past to better understand his decisions, she learns not only how to forgive him but also how to move on from her own wounds of abandonment and insecurity. Using a genre-defying structure and written in novelistic prose that draws from art, literature, and natural history, Anelise Chen unfolds a complex story of interspecies connectedness, in which humans learn lessons of adaptation and survival from their mollusk kin. While it makes sense in certain situations to retreat behind fortified walls, the choice to do so also exacts a price. What is the price of building up walls? How can one take them back down when they are no longer necessary?

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“Underneath the clam’s infamous stoicism, a confused heart considers how its body has kept score. Calm Down is a modern love story embedded within a metafictional review of animal-metamorphosis tales placed within a cautionary environmental fable enclosed by an immigrant family’s saga. A writer who disarmingly walks the reader through this blooming, elaborate, emotional game of shells, Anelise Chen’s strategically conversational persona un-guards us, allowing her intricate metaphors to align into stunning revelation.”—Eugene Lim, author of Search History

“After Chen splits with her husband, an older man she had been with since her early 20s, her mother sends her repeated texts urging her to ‘clam down.’ In response, Chen realizes—à la Gregor Samsa—that she is a clam, and she decides her clamped-shut mollusk nature could explain everything.”—Vulture “A marvel and a delight! . . . This stunning book believes in typos as doorways, divorce as oxygen, mollusks as mercy, and seashells as generative constraints. I could hardly put it down—carrying it around like a talisman, crawling inside it like a wunderkammer, putting my ear to it like a shell, so I could hear its vast, surprising ocean. Full of heart and humor, expansive curiosity and gritty intimacy, this is a book that will stay with me forever—for its wild pulse, its compassion, its humility, and its abandon; for its gut-renovation of the first-person and its veins full of wonder. I treasure it.”—Leslie Jamison, author of Splinters “A marvelously funny and affecting memoir that reads like no other . . . Brilliant and unpredictable, it reveals something essential and hidden about the nature of clams, humans, inheritance, rational thinking, obsessions, and love. This book is the companion we all need.”—Rivka Galchen, author of Everyone Knows Your Mother Is a Witch “A modern love story embedded within a metafictional review of animal-metamorphosis tales placed within a cautionary environmental fable enclosed by an immigrant family’s saga. Anelise Chen disarmingly walks the reader through this blooming, elaborate, emotional game of shells.”—Eugene Lim, author of Search History “A candescent, transporting metamorphosis from reluctant bivalve to woman . . . There is no other writer who delves with as much comic pathos and brio into the besieged depths of the abject to surface on the shores of the ecstatic self. From the moment this mollusk opens her mouth, we are treated to the most piquant, glorious brine.”—Lisa Hsiao Chen, author of Activities of Daily Living “Ingenious, hilarious, and deeply moving, Chen’s work beguiles us, defies easy categories, and manages to be both wide-ranging and profoundly intimate.”—Dana Spiotta, author of Wayward

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Anelise Chen is the author of the novel So Many Olympic Exertions, a finalist for the VCU Cabell First Novelist Award. She is a 5 Under 35 Honoree from the National Book Foundation. Chen is currently an assistant professor of creative writing at Columbia University. She lives in New Haven, Connecticut, with her family.

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