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The book explores in depth the emotional implications for parents at the birth of a child with a disability, describing the psychological journey from the initial shock to the gradual acceptance and reorganisation of family life. After introducing the overwhelming impact of the diagnosis, it examines the main emotional reactions: shock, denial, anger, sadness, fear, and a sense of disorientation, understood as stages of a true bereavement process for the ""ideal child"" and for the imagined future that will not come to pass. The text delves into the process of working through and acceptance, showing how parents, through information, psychological support, support groups, mindfulness practices, and cognitive restructuring, can transform pain and anger into awareness, resilience, and the ability to redefine dreams and expectations. A substantial section is devoted to the reorganisation of daily life: practical adjustments at home and in time management, redefinition of parental roles, economic and emotional impact, and the importance of routines that are predictable yet flexible for the well-being of the entire family unit. Specific attention is given to siblings, often the ""invisible children"" their ambivalent experiences (love, jealousy, shame, guilt, hyper-responsibility) are described, and strategies are proposed to give space to their emotions and needs, including through dedicated pathways. The dynamics of the parental couple are then explored, between alliance and conflict, guilt and different coping styles, highlighting the need to preserve time and space for the couple's bond and, when helpful, to seek specific psychological support. Critical life-cycle transitions (childhood, adolescence, entry into adulthood) are analysed, along with the re-emergence, at each developmental turning point, of fears and reorganisations, particularly in relation to autonomy and ""life after the parents."" One chapter is devoted to everyday emotional challenges (stress, burnout, managing anger, sadness, and fear) and to parental self-care, viewed not as optional, but as a condition for sustaining the caregiving role over time. The book also addresses the relationship with the community and institutions: social judgement, school inclusion, the role of professionals, and the importance of networks and advocacy work for the child's rights and quality of life. In its concluding sections, through testimonies and reflections, the text focuses on resilience, hope, and the transformative potential of this experience, offering parents not only a theoretical framework but an empathic guide, valuable both emotionally and in practical, long-term planning terms. The book explores in depth the emotional implications for parents at the birth of a child with a disability, describing the psychological journey from the initial shock to the gradual acceptance and reorganisation of family life. After introducing the overwhelming impact of the diagnosis, it examines the main emotional reactions: shock, denial, anger, sadness, fear, and a sense of disorientation, understood as stages of a true bereavement process for the ""ideal child"" and for the imagined future that will not come to pass. The text deepens the process of working through and acceptance, showing how parents can transform pain and anger into awareness, resilience, and the ability to redefine dreams and expectations, offering not only a theoretical framework but an empathic guide, valuable both emotionally and in practical, long-term planning terms.

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