Before You Yell: The 90-Second Pause That Changes Everything (A Calm Parent's Playbook for Ages 3-10)

Author:   L K Ashford
Publisher:   Independently Published
ISBN:  

9798199200288


Pages:   76
Publication Date:   29 May 2026
Format:   Paperback
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Before You Yell: The 90-Second Pause That Changes Everything (A Calm Parent's Playbook for Ages 3-10)


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Your child is melting down in the kitchen. You feel the heat rise. You hear your voice going somewhere you didn't choose. You don't have to keep yelling. Even tonight. Most parenting books tell you to be more patient. This one shows you exactly what to do - in your body, in your words - in the ninety seconds between the trigger and the yell. Before You Yell is built on a simple, stubborn idea: you cannot think your way out of an activated nervous system. Your body has to settle before your mind can choose. Once it does, the right words come - and most of them are already in this book. Inside, you'll learn: The F.E.E.L. method - the four-step internal script that takes 30 seconds and works on every yelling trigger The three triggers behind every parental outburst (and which one is firing for you) 11 word-for-word scripts for the hardest moments - whining, sibling fights, ""I hate you,"" refusing to brush teeth, public meltdowns The four-part repair conversation that turns a rupture into a relationship deposit What changes at ages 3-4, 5-7, and 8-10 - and how to calibrate The 5-minute daily connection ritual that prevents the meltdowns before they start The 30-Day Calm Reset: Notice → Interrupt → Rebuild For parents who love their kids and want to stop snapping at them. No shame. No lectures. No ""if you really cared, you would already..."" Just a regulated body, a calibrated voice, and a child who learns - every single day - that big feelings are survivable in the company of an adult who knows how to stay. For every parent who has whispered ""I'm sorry"" through a closed door, and meant it. This is for you.

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Author:   L K Ashford
Publisher:   Independently Published
Imprint:   Independently Published
Dimensions:   Width: 15.20cm , Height: 0.40cm , Length: 22.90cm
Weight:   0.113kg
ISBN:  

9798199200288


Pages:   76
Publication Date:   29 May 2026
Audience:   General/trade ,  General
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   Available To Order   Availability explained
We have confirmation that this item is in stock with the supplier. It will be ordered in for you and dispatched immediately.

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