Overview

Look beyond the fantasies of whip-cracking dominatrixes and cowering slaveboys, and you'll find real women and men in caring, consensual female-dominant relationships. Yet, given that social norms grant the majority of power to men, how do these relationships work? This is a revised and updated edition with 28% new material including exercises to help you think about femdom relationships in your own life. TammyJo and Fox have been building their female-dominant relationship for many years, and have gathered their most important discoveries and theories into this important manual. You'll learn: - how to take your roles beyond the bedroom - the role of rituals, contracts and protocols in day-to-day femdom life - how to achieve training and growth that complement the nature of the relationship - how each individual can get his or her needs met within the context of a consensual disparity in power - how to integrate fetish desires into the relationship - how to cope with the realities of life (illness, work, family) without losing touch with the relationship ... and much more.

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"""Femdom is easy to teach, but the delicate balance of dominant/submissive is difficult-- especially when complicated by the unusual power dynamic of female dominance. A common sense and inspiring look at how femdom works for real people in the real world."" Lady Green, author, The Sexually Dominant Woman"

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TammyJo Eckhart, PhD, has been part of the BDSM Scene since 1989. Her fiction crosses genres including contemporary, fantasy, historical, horror, and science fiction and ranges from novel to microfiction length. Her non-fiction works cover subjects ranging from alternative sexuality, history, relationship advice, to the challenges of trauma recovery. She holds a PhD in Ancient History with doctoral minors in Gender & Sexuality and Folklore. She has served on the steering committees of two university kink organizations, Conversio Virium (Columbia University 1994-1997) and Headspace (Indiana Uni Fox has been a member of the BDSM community for over 25 years. They identify as submissive, pansexual, poly, genderqueer, and occasionally as a bondage-top. They are a lifetime student of the sciences, having a BS in Physics, and earn their living by working with computers in various capacities. They love to read, their tastes ranging from anthropomorphic fiction, to astronomy, Egyptology, futurism, storm chasing, transhumanism, and web design. While they enjoy creative outlets such as drawing and writing, they rarely stray from the realm of fiction. Normally a very private person, they nevertheless served on the steering committee of Headspace (2000-2004) as well as various online communities. They have also taught, co-presented, and served as a panelist at many different kink events across the United States. Suffice it to say, collaborating on this book was a challenge only overcome thanks to the encouragement and patient support of their Mistress.

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