Overview

Men can be on the receiving end of an abusive relationship. This book challenges the misconception that domestic violence and other forms of partner abuse only happen to women. It brings attention to the reality that men can experience abuse within intimate relationships - whether from an emotionally abusive girlfriend, a physically abusive wife, or a female partner who is demanding, controlling, or manipulative. Through personal stories and insightful analysis, it explores female-to-male partner abuse and its impact on men and families. Counselor Ann Silvers, M.A., questions the cultural trend to ignore, condone, or even applaud women treating men in ways that would be rightfully condemned if the genders were reversed. Her unique perspective as a woman who herself was the target of partner abuse by a man, and who also recognizes that there are abusive women and abused men, has resulted in a balanced examination of partner abuse that resists common gender-based blind spots. This revised second edition maintains the original's readability while incorporating substantial new research, statistics that illuminate the breadth and depth of the problem, updated examples, and expanded coverage. It has received international endorsements from scholars, clinicians, family law professionals, advocates, and individuals with lived experience, who have described it as an essential resource that brings compassion and clarity to a widely misunderstood issue affecting men and families around the globe. In Abuse OF Men BY Women: It Happens, It Hurts, Let's Deal With It you'll discover: Detailed yet concise descriptions of all 7 forms of partner abuse: physical, verbal, sexual, financial, legal, spiritual, and emotional/psychological How men get pulled into these dysfunctional relationships and the warning signs that he is being mistreated Why women abuse their partners and why abused men stay Real-life stories from abused men and their families Practical advice for evaluating options and step-by-step guide for ways forward Ann Silvers brings together research-backed insight, accessible language, and practical guidance for men navigating difficult relationships, professionals who serve them, and anyone seeking a clearer understanding of partner abuse.

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""It's as if Ann had known me and my ex all our lives and was writing the book from an invisible observation point in the house."" -Abused man ""In this revised second edition of Abuse OF Men BY Women, Ann Silvers continues to challenge one of the most persistent blind spots in discussions of intimate partner violence. Silvers combines compassionate narrative with solid evidence, making complex issues accessible while maintaining intellectual rigor. Building on the strengths of the original, she incorporates new research, updated statistics, expanded examples, and insights drawn from years of clinical experience. Readers will find clear guidance for recognizing abuse patterns and evaluating constructive paths forward."" -Denise A. Hines, PhD, Professor of Social Work, George Mason University ""Ann succeeds in making a complex, charged topic easily understandable. Her book's structure is exceptionally clear and her approach balanced and grounded in reality. I will be sharing this book with my family law clients and citing it in legal submissions because it provides vital education judges need but don't often receive."" -Kristen Lewis, JD, LLM, Family Law Attorney ""For many years I directed a court-referred domestic violence program that included both male and female abusers. I wish I could have given all of them this book. It is the most authoritative work I've read on the subject and will be invaluable for individuals, clinicians, and other professionals."" -Jed Diamond, PhD, Founder of MenAlive ""The first edition of Abuse OF Men BY Women was already a vital resource, but this revised edition elevates the work to an entirely new level. The expanded research and international data create a more comprehensive picture of the realities men face worldwide."" -Ben Hine, PhD, Professor of Applied Psychology, University of West London ""Abuse OF Men BY Women blends the personal and the societal. It is essential reading for men in abusive relationships, women seeking to change harmful behavior, and those who want to help."" -Justin Trottier, Founder and CEO, Canadian Centre for Men and Families ""Ann tells the truth about abuse without agenda or blame, combining deep compassion with rigorous research. The result is a resource that validates men's experiences while offering practical and grounded guidance."" -Andy Grant, Host of Real Men Feel

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Ann Silvers, M.A., is a licensed counselor and author with more than two decades of clinical experience. Her work on partner abuse is informed by academic research, years of counseling men and women navigating complex relationships, and her own experience as the target of partner abuse. She also writes about relationship dynamics and practical strategies that support emotion regulation and communication.

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