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A parent's deeply moving love letter to a daughter who has always known exactly who she is. 'Stunning . . . Built like a thriller, moving, wise and illuminated on every page with love' - Joanne Harris, author of Chocolat When Carolyn Hays's child made clear to the family that they were all wrong, he was not a boy, but, in fact, a girl, the Hays shifted pronouns, adopted a nickname and encouraged her to dress as she felt comfortable. One ordinary day, a caseworker from the Department of Children and Families knocked on their door to investigate an anonymous complaint about the upbringing of their transgender child. It was this threat that instilled in them a deep-seated fear for their child's safety in the Republican state they called home. And so they uprooted their lives to the more trans-accepting Northeast United States, though they were never far from the hate and fear resting at the nation's core. Intimate and thought-provoking, A Letter to My Transgender Daughter is an ode to Hays's brilliant, brave child, as well as a cathartic revisit of the pain of the past. It tells of the brutal truths of being trans, of the sacrificial nature of motherhood, and of the lengths a family will go to shield their youngest from the cruel realities of the world. Hays asks us all to love better, for children everywhere enduring injustice and prejudice just as they begin to understand themselves. A Letter to My Transgender Daughter is a celebration of difference, a plea for empathy, a hope for a better future, but moreover, it is a love letter to a child who has always known herself and is waiting for the rest of the world to catch up. Originally published as A Girlhood: A Letter to My Transgender Daughter

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Author:   Carolyn Hays
Publisher:   Pan Macmillan
Imprint:   Picador
Dimensions:   Width: 13.00cm , Height: 2.60cm , Length: 19.80cm
Weight:   0.210kg
ISBN:  

9781529064506

ISBN 10:   1529064503
Pages:   288
Publication Date:   07 September 2023
Recommended Age:   From 18 years
Audience:   General/trade ,  College/higher education ,  Professional and scholarly ,  General ,  Tertiary & Higher Education
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   In stock  
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Stunning . . . Built like a thriller, moving, wise and illuminated on every page with love' -- Joanne Harris, author of <i>Chocolat</i> Hays's story is about more than the transgender question: it's about ignorance and wisdom; hatred and love; men, women, and children. In the end, A Girlhood is about all of us. -- <font face= verdana, tahoma ><span>Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of <i>She's Not There</i> and <i>Good Boy</i></span></font> It's impossible to read this book and not root for the fierce, human, beautiful family at its center and the daughter that they - 'like tanks' - protect against those who try to steal her joy. -- <font face= verdana, tahoma ><span>Beth Ann Fennelly, author of <i>Great with Child: Letters to a Young Mother</i></span></font> 'I saw facets of my own trans identity I'd never pondered, questions about the construction of self I'd never even thought to pose . . . An act of epic compassion. -- Diana Goetsch, author of <i>This Body I Wore</i> Touching, combative, compelling . . . this memoir begins with the suspense of a thriller and ends with hope * Vogue (Italy) * An important and moving book, which traverses family bonds, change, courage, politics, rights, faith and reason . . . dictated by a love that will not accept compromises. * La Repubblica * An incredibly poignant and timely story for trans families everywhere. I wish my parents had access to these words, stories, and beautiful thoughts while raising me -- Tommy Dorfman

"Stunning . . . Built like a thriller, moving, wise and illuminated on every page with love' -- Joanne Harris, author of <i>Chocolat</i> Hays’s story is about more than the transgender question: it’s about ignorance and wisdom; hatred and love; men, women, and children. In the end, [A Letter to My Transgender Daughter] is about all of us. -- <font face=""verdana, tahoma""><span>Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of <i>She’s Not There</i> and <i>Good Boy</i></span></font> It’s impossible to read this book and not root for the fierce, human, beautiful family at its center and the daughter that they - ‘like tanks’ - protect against those who try to steal her joy. -- <font face=""verdana, tahoma""><span>Beth Ann Fennelly, author of <i>Great with Child: Letters to a Young Mother</i></span></font> 'I saw facets of my own trans identity I’d never pondered, questions about the construction of self I’d never even thought to pose . . . An act of epic compassion. -- Diana Goetsch, author of <i>This Body I Wore</i> Touching, combative, compelling . . . this memoir begins with the suspense of a thriller and ends with hope * Vogue (Italy) * An important and moving book, which traverses family bonds, change, courage, politics, rights, faith and reason . . . dictated by a love that will not accept compromises. * La Repubblica * An incredibly poignant and timely story for trans families everywhere. I wish my parents had access to these words, stories, and beautiful thoughts while raising me -- Tommy Dorfman"

"Stunning . . . Built like a thriller, moving, wise and illuminated on every page with love' -- Joanne Harris, author of <i>Chocolat</i> Hays’s story is about more than the transgender question: it’s about ignorance and wisdom; hatred and love; men, women, and children. In the end, A Girlhood is about all of us. -- <font face=""verdana, tahoma""><span>Jennifer Finney Boylan, author of <i>She’s Not There</i> and <i>Good Boy</i></span></font> It’s impossible to read this book and not root for the fierce, human, beautiful family at its center and the daughter that they - ‘like tanks’ - protect against those who try to steal her joy. -- <font face=""verdana, tahoma""><span>Beth Ann Fennelly, author of <i>Great with Child: Letters to a Young Mother</i></span></font> 'I saw facets of my own trans identity I’d never pondered, questions about the construction of self I’d never even thought to pose . . . An act of epic compassion. -- Diana Goetsch, author of <i>This Body I Wore</i> Touching, combative, compelling . . . this memoir begins with the suspense of a thriller and ends with hope * Vogue (Italy) * An important and moving book, which traverses family bonds, change, courage, politics, rights, faith and reason . . . dictated by a love that will not accept compromises. * La Repubblica * An incredibly poignant and timely story for trans families everywhere. I wish my parents had access to these words, stories, and beautiful thoughts while raising me -- Tommy Dorfman"

Author Information

Carolyn Hays is an award-winning, critically acclaimed, bestselling author who has chosen to publish A Girlhood: A Letter to My Transgender Daughter under a pen name to protect the privacy of her family. Her past books have been listed as New York Times Notable Books of the Year and Kirkus's Best Fiction of the Year, and have been widely translated. She's written for National Public Radio and The Washington Post.

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